Gosh, I don’t even know where to begin to update you all on whats going on. Last week was a week full of drama and I am so glad that it is over, but I have reason to believe that it’s just the start of the beginning. Why is it that I am always involved in other people’s drama. I don’t even like drama. I try to stay drama free, but that never happens. Well, here we go. I am going to try and make this sweet and simple because if I wrote out ALL that happened it would take me forever and this would be the longest blog entry EVER!

So my sister finally decided that she needed to get out of her marriage before it became worse. That’s cool and all but now that I have time to sit and think about it the way it all happened was pretty cold hearted. I would have told her this but the fact that my sisters and I are the same, there was no point. When we make up our mind about something and how to go about getting it done, it’s done. There is no changing our minds because our mind is already made up. So last week, they [meaning my family] dragged me into forming a plan to get her stuff out so she could stay with my cousin for a while. That plan was a success, but we didn’t expect him to take the offer we gave him so soon. My sister told him that she would buy him a plane ticket back home and he flew back the next morning.

I just gave you a summary of what happened but there is tons that happened between and after all of that which makes me a little irritated. I have reason to believe that my sister pulled the sympathy card just for us to help her get out. Putting hands on a woman is NOT okay in my book, but I think that the way things happened to get her out was shitty. And a couple of days after he flew back she went out of town and told certain people that she was going to Chattanooga. And of course, she told me where she was really going and that makes me believe that there is a lot to the story that she isn’t telling us.

My question is why all of a sudden you want out? You say he hasn’t hit you recently but you all argued. Okay, arguments are going to happen in a marriage but no marriage is perfect. Why are you going out of town to see your ex so soon? How long have you even been talking to him? These are all questions that I have for her, and I told my dad about my concerns and he told me that he had the same questions. I was shocked to know that because NO ONE told my dad where she was really going. See, my dad is a Pastor and I believe that the Holy Spirit tells my dad what’s going on in forms of dreams but he knows a lot of what my other sister and I have done, and he ALWAYS find out. But besides all of that, my dad stated that he is going to have a talk with her about it. I’m pretty interested about what he’s going to say to her, but I don’t know if I will find out or not.

To add on to all this drama, my soon to be ex-brother-in-law has took it upon himself to blame my mother for everything that has happened in their marriage. Which of course makes me mad because she wasn’t the one telling you to hit her, choke her, or punch her. So why not blame yourself for all the shit you did? I guess he must think that type of shit is okay in a marriage. If you would have just taken anger management classes you be in this now would you?! Ugh, let me stop talking about this because this is making me want to call him and give him my opinion in this whole matter.

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